Exporting diagram

When using the DTS to copy a db from my local MSSQL to the remote server (connecting via IP address) everything is copied ok except the diagram laying out the relations.
The table relations *are* copied because the damn thing works as expected also on the remote server.

I figured out that the diagrams are saved in the sysfile 'dtproperties' but when copying using the DTS query tool from local to remote this table is not visible.

I need to remove some relations on certain tables when bulk loading new data and was just wondering how I got to copy the diagram (as opposed to creating a new diagram on the remote server and adding relations manually).

Thanks a lot for any ideas,
Nielsdtproperties doesnt show up in the query builder. just write it by hand "select * from dtproperties"
also, if you dont create the destination file/object (i.e. flat text file) prior to running this it will complain about an object not being found. for instance if you name your destination file dtproperties.txt in the exporter but it doesnt exist it will complain -- at least it did for me.